Falling in love at first sight.

Falling in love at first sight is one of the best experiences of a life time for anyone. It feels so magical and strange. When you face that moment, not only your mind, but also your body changed on that very first sight. But the fact is, is that feeling is really love?

Many think that is the real love. Because, when we just saw a person on the very first time, we don’t know anything about them. Do they educate or Do they have money or at least Do they like us? How old are they? We don’t know anything, but we feel love about them. So it’s only love. Nothing is there, in between us only a feeling of love. So it’s a real love.

But few think, it’s not real love at the very first sight, because we don’t know anything about them, but still we love means, only a feeling of desire about that person. Desire is not the love, if we get to know about them some, maybe we escape from them. 

So What do you think? Falling in love at first sight is real love?

Why do we Love?

Falling in love is a wonderful experience which happens between two people. But, have you ever thought, why do people fall in love? And for what?

There may be many reasons. But the main reason is, love is the main factor for evolution of the mankind.That means, people falling in love and making another human being (Reproduction). When we help continuing our evolution, automatically we are benefited the pleasure and happiness for being loved. That is the practical concern for all of us, Happiness and pleasure. To get this happiness and pleasure we do love.  In a way, love means the bait, which put in to us by nature, for evolution of mankind... We all want to swallow this bait happily. 

Normally, we couldn’t do reproduction at all ages, effectively. We do it effectively, age range from 16 to 45 years. Same as many of people do love effectively, in these ages.  So…love someone really and help continuing our mankind in this earth. 

True Love and suspicious mind

Sometime we suspect our loved one badly, though we love each other very much. There may be few reasons for that. So the main reason is, we love them so much, so we scare to lose them.

If we really love a person, we never keep the suspicious mind about him or her. Instead of that, we should give some freedom to them.  It’s because, if they really love us, they never go with another. But if they cheat on us, one day or another they gonna leave us. It doesn’t matter, whether we suspect or not. On the other hand, if we suspect, honest one, they may think, “Though I love her so much, still she suspects me, so my love is nothing in her”.

So I think, in order to overcome unnecessary issues,  we may never suspect the our loved one. Just believe in the true love! True love will never leave us.