Love has a limit and at some point it's a criminal !!!

In a one life time of a person, could love several people. Not even love, if they want could live together until they realize they are ready to go further under one roof. Ultimately they could marry an only one person. Marriage is the finest honor which could give for a love in a civilized society.  And it’s the legal agreement that saying “I love you, till I die no matter what”.

But at some point, after married, they may find better person to love. Then “Boom….” In here, anybody could call “This is wrong” to love another, after married. So that’s how civilized society looks for it.

But is it really wrong? I mean it’s a feeling. That person may have a more strong feeling of love about new lover than the married one. So what’s the matter? As a human, couldn’t stop our prime feeling easily. Because we born to do love. But in here, we try to civilize our feeling of love as could as possible by a law . But in this situation, if they not married already, then they could just walk away from each other and make their new love.  So it’s obvious that, we try to rule the love as much we could. Not like other feelings, love is wonderful and spiritual feeling in our lives, our lives mainly depending on that. but when civilized law comes in to the love it has a limit. sometimes its funny when thinks, "we cannot love as we want, due to the law".   so still "Love" has a limit just like any other things in this world. not only that in this situation doing love is a Criminal. what do you think?

Commit suicide for love, is the true love?

Sometimes people get so hurt from love and they even commit suicide. If They die for love they call it true love. But is it really true love? No its not. Who is responsible for your pain that you feel? It is the person you love or your own mind that has created all your thoughts and expectations. Did that person force you to love? You loved for your own requirement, for the requirement of your mind. Do remember that nobody can ever force someone to love. Because love is an extremely personal feelings that can be created only by yourself.

If you have a bad relationship with someone, you would create a mentality that love hurts. Love gives pain. You would start blaming love for the pain you received from your relationship. But love did not do anything. You are the creator of your pain. You are the creator of your expectations. You used the word ” Love ” to prove the intensity of your feelings. Love doesn’t hurt anyone. You create your own pain and put the blame on love.

So still do you believe commit suicide for love, is the truelove?

Unconditional Love

Most of the time, when we love someone, love starts with some expectations in our mind. It means we expect love in return. This is normal and common for everyone. But I believe, True love is always unconditional.

When you love someone, you generally create some expectations from the person you love. like : I love you, So you should also love me. I always try to make you happy, so you should also make me happy. There are many small expectations we create every day. we feel happy when any of your expectations get fulfilled. But whenever it doesn’t happen, it starts creating pain for us. So it means we do not love him or her, we just love for yourself.  we do all this things to make your happiness in return.

But true love should be unconditional, whether it hurts or not, you should love them.  In return you could expect nothing. So ask yourself….have you ever loved anyone truly?