Why do we Love?

Falling in love is a wonderful experience which happens between two people. But, have you ever thought, why do people fall in love? And for what?

There may be many reasons. But the main reason is, love is the main factor for evolution of the mankind.That means, people falling in love and making another human being (Reproduction). When we help continuing our evolution, automatically we are benefited the pleasure and happiness for being loved. That is the practical concern for all of us, Happiness and pleasure. To get this happiness and pleasure we do love.  In a way, love means the bait, which put in to us by nature, for evolution of mankind... We all want to swallow this bait happily. 

Normally, we couldn’t do reproduction at all ages, effectively. We do it effectively, age range from 16 to 45 years. Same as many of people do love effectively, in these ages.  So…love someone really and help continuing our mankind in this earth. 

True Love and suspicious mind

Sometime we suspect our loved one badly, though we love each other very much. There may be few reasons for that. So the main reason is, we love them so much, so we scare to lose them.

If we really love a person, we never keep the suspicious mind about him or her. Instead of that, we should give some freedom to them.  It’s because, if they really love us, they never go with another. But if they cheat on us, one day or another they gonna leave us. It doesn’t matter, whether we suspect or not. On the other hand, if we suspect, honest one, they may think, “Though I love her so much, still she suspects me, so my love is nothing in her”.

So I think, in order to overcome unnecessary issues,  we may never suspect the our loved one. Just believe in the true love! True love will never leave us.

Did love hurt you ever?

Everyone may say love hurts. It means everyone get hurt their heart due to someone in this world. Wonderful thing is someone cause to another one’s hurt. And nobodies think they may cause to someone’s hurt. It means, every person hurt from someone and that person is going to hurt someone. It’s like a circle. Then everybody hurt at a point. 

Our quantity of love is depending on the person we love. Sometime though we have a good partner, if we met new one who makes more feelings in our mind, we may go after that person, and leaving existing. That’s why we breakup with each others. That same thing may happen on us again. Then we will get hurt too. That’s why everybody gets hurt due to love. as I told before, This is like a circle. In this case always true love will suffer.

When we love someone truly, we believe, everything of us is our love. So when that person does something wrong, it’ll effect greatly to our life. Sometime if we do just love, it may not much effect to us, hurt is depending how much you do love to a person. Always more love is more pain either side. Less love or fake love is less pain.

So the fact is true love is always hurts. But if you get hurt from love, be happy, you did love your loved one truly. And think to yourself, you not gonna hurt someone on someday and Most important thing is, we must understand that, if someone leaves us for nothing, we should let them go. It’s because if someone not care about us, why we care about them?

Young and old Love.

In the society we see very young people are falling love with some old people. Traditionally, these types of love affairs are seemed to be odd, we think. But in their minds, they may have wonderful feelings and remarkable relationship in between them.

If we go deep these relationships, it’s oblivious that older people have more patience, more experience about the relationships. Not only with the love, but also with the sex, they got good experiences. So if older one involve with a younger one, it may could build up a good relationship. Lots of Women over 25 and still single are mostly disappointed by men of their age limits; they look for somewhat mature men for their satisfactions, it’s because they think, younger men are always stubborn and they don’t see the consequence, and always they breaking women’s hearts so simply. But mature men could keep the commitment rather than young men. And the other thing is younger men who in same age with women, not much respect the women, but older men. And older guys always care young women as their jewels. Further the older guys may more wealthiness and they could give more security than a young fellow. Young women always love to have more security and they like wealthiness too.  So the all facts mean, it could easily build up a good relationship with young women and older guys.

If we suppose that male is young and female is older, then it may be boy will accept more sex than a love or sometime even money from that lady. And the ladies also like to have young men company, than their age’s men.  Accordingly that female hopes more stubborn love with sex from the young guys... But in many cases, it may never be a strong love relationship in between young men and older women.

But always keep remember in your mind that, if it’s a real true love, we don’t choose who we fall in love with, it simply happens.

Love & Sex

Result of true love is sex?

Sex is the ultimate pleasure, of the love. And it is the physical presentation of the love. But the most wonderful thing is, without any love, still people can do this thing. That is the lust for sex.

But true love is not depending on the sex, True love is depending on the mutual understanding. If someone does love just for sex, it will not be a long term relationship. It’s because person’s physical attraction does not exist in long term. And if some has lots of sexual desires, he or she will not remain with a one person. But of course, love needs the sex for enjoy the love, not as a lust.

The other thing is to go in to her or his heart, and to touch their Soule we may say lot of love stories, and we may do lot of good things for them to make their mind up. That is the way of loving each other’s hearts.  

On the other hand, we can’t love everyone. It’s because, to love somebody truly, we should have a real deep emotional romantic feeling about him or her. Then only we feel the love. When it’s this feeling of love goes deep, so the sex takes the place. That’s how true love’s sex works. And it’s the way of loving each other bodies.

But people are having sex without any love or any emotion. It may just lust for sex. So the sex exists in two forms. One form is with love and the other with lust. What do you think folks?

Love & Money

As a young boy one of my friend thought, to have a pretty girl he must be a smart, handsome guy. But after he grown up, thought to have a pretty girl, he must be a wealthy man.

Suppose, if you have a nice sport car, and wearing a luxury watch with a newest smart phone, and you go to a restaurant. Then what happened? Everyone in there will look at you. Everyone may want to say “Hi” to you. They don’t care whether you dark or fair, tall or short, you good or bad. They concern only for your Wealthiness. In here it is easy for you to friendly with any girl or boy there. Then they may fell in love with you. It may not the real love. But it’s not the point. Point is if you have good money, it’s easy to find a pretty girl or a boy.

Further, someone could say “In this world we could buy our love at a cost”. It’s because everything has a cost. Someone could argue, “Yes… everything has a cost but feelings”. But feeling of “Love” may create by money accordingly. If someone gives you enough money, you may do whatever they tell you to do. Just like movie stars. In movies they do what they ask to do for money, when we watch the movie, we never think it’s fake.  In simply, Lots of unpleasant or old fellows are dating or married by pretty girls. It’s because money. It may not the real or true love. But they are pretending its true love for just for sake of money.

The other hand, someone could love for someone due to the money at the first stage. But gradually they may get to know each other and mutual understanding grow up. Then it may become a steady relationship with real love for everlasting. But that is very rare.  

Other thing is, though we have a true lover, but if not have enough money to spend for live, then what will happen? For sure, true love may escape. But if it’s a really, really true love it won’t. But it’s also very rare.