Commit suicide for love, is the true love?

Sometimes people get so hurt from love and they even commit suicide. If They die for love they call it true love. But is it really true love? No its not. Who is responsible for your pain that you feel? It is the person you love or your own mind that has created all your thoughts and expectations. Did that person force you to love? You loved for your own requirement, for the requirement of your mind. Do remember that nobody can ever force someone to love. Because love is an extremely personal feelings that can be created only by yourself.

If you have a bad relationship with someone, you would create a mentality that love hurts. Love gives pain. You would start blaming love for the pain you received from your relationship. But love did not do anything. You are the creator of your pain. You are the creator of your expectations. You used the word ” Love ” to prove the intensity of your feelings. Love doesn’t hurt anyone. You create your own pain and put the blame on love.

So still do you believe commit suicide for love, is the truelove?

Unconditional Love

Most of the time, when we love someone, love starts with some expectations in our mind. It means we expect love in return. This is normal and common for everyone. But I believe, True love is always unconditional.

When you love someone, you generally create some expectations from the person you love. like : I love you, So you should also love me. I always try to make you happy, so you should also make me happy. There are many small expectations we create every day. we feel happy when any of your expectations get fulfilled. But whenever it doesn’t happen, it starts creating pain for us. So it means we do not love him or her, we just love for yourself.  we do all this things to make your happiness in return.

But true love should be unconditional, whether it hurts or not, you should love them.  In return you could expect nothing. So ask yourself….have you ever loved anyone truly? 

Falling in love at first sight.

Falling in love at first sight is one of the best experiences of a life time for anyone. It feels so magical and strange. When you face that moment, not only your mind, but also your body changed on that very first sight. But the fact is, is that feeling is really love?

Many think that is the real love. Because, when we just saw a person on the very first time, we don’t know anything about them. Do they educate or Do they have money or at least Do they like us? How old are they? We don’t know anything, but we feel love about them. So it’s only love. Nothing is there, in between us only a feeling of love. So it’s a real love.

But few think, it’s not real love at the very first sight, because we don’t know anything about them, but still we love means, only a feeling of desire about that person. Desire is not the love, if we get to know about them some, maybe we escape from them. 

So What do you think? Falling in love at first sight is real love?

Why do we Love?

Falling in love is a wonderful experience which happens between two people. But, have you ever thought, why do people fall in love? And for what?

There may be many reasons. But the main reason is, love is the main factor for evolution of the mankind.That means, people falling in love and making another human being (Reproduction). When we help continuing our evolution, automatically we are benefited the pleasure and happiness for being loved. That is the practical concern for all of us, Happiness and pleasure. To get this happiness and pleasure we do love.  In a way, love means the bait, which put in to us by nature, for evolution of mankind... We all want to swallow this bait happily. 

Normally, we couldn’t do reproduction at all ages, effectively. We do it effectively, age range from 16 to 45 years. Same as many of people do love effectively, in these ages.  So…love someone really and help continuing our mankind in this earth. 

True Love and suspicious mind

Sometime we suspect our loved one badly, though we love each other very much. There may be few reasons for that. So the main reason is, we love them so much, so we scare to lose them.

If we really love a person, we never keep the suspicious mind about him or her. Instead of that, we should give some freedom to them.  It’s because, if they really love us, they never go with another. But if they cheat on us, one day or another they gonna leave us. It doesn’t matter, whether we suspect or not. On the other hand, if we suspect, honest one, they may think, “Though I love her so much, still she suspects me, so my love is nothing in her”.

So I think, in order to overcome unnecessary issues,  we may never suspect the our loved one. Just believe in the true love! True love will never leave us.

Did love hurt you ever?

Everyone may say love hurts. It means everyone get hurt their heart due to someone in this world. Wonderful thing is someone cause to another one’s hurt. And nobodies think they may cause to someone’s hurt. It means, every person hurt from someone and that person is going to hurt someone. It’s like a circle. Then everybody hurt at a point. 

Our quantity of love is depending on the person we love. Sometime though we have a good partner, if we met new one who makes more feelings in our mind, we may go after that person, and leaving existing. That’s why we breakup with each others. That same thing may happen on us again. Then we will get hurt too. That’s why everybody gets hurt due to love. as I told before, This is like a circle. In this case always true love will suffer.

When we love someone truly, we believe, everything of us is our love. So when that person does something wrong, it’ll effect greatly to our life. Sometime if we do just love, it may not much effect to us, hurt is depending how much you do love to a person. Always more love is more pain either side. Less love or fake love is less pain.

So the fact is true love is always hurts. But if you get hurt from love, be happy, you did love your loved one truly. And think to yourself, you not gonna hurt someone on someday and Most important thing is, we must understand that, if someone leaves us for nothing, we should let them go. It’s because if someone not care about us, why we care about them?

Young and old Love.

In the society we see very young people are falling love with some old people. Traditionally, these types of love affairs are seemed to be odd, we think. But in their minds, they may have wonderful feelings and remarkable relationship in between them.

If we go deep these relationships, it’s oblivious that older people have more patience, more experience about the relationships. Not only with the love, but also with the sex, they got good experiences. So if older one involve with a younger one, it may could build up a good relationship. Lots of Women over 25 and still single are mostly disappointed by men of their age limits; they look for somewhat mature men for their satisfactions, it’s because they think, younger men are always stubborn and they don’t see the consequence, and always they breaking women’s hearts so simply. But mature men could keep the commitment rather than young men. And the other thing is younger men who in same age with women, not much respect the women, but older men. And older guys always care young women as their jewels. Further the older guys may more wealthiness and they could give more security than a young fellow. Young women always love to have more security and they like wealthiness too.  So the all facts mean, it could easily build up a good relationship with young women and older guys.

If we suppose that male is young and female is older, then it may be boy will accept more sex than a love or sometime even money from that lady. And the ladies also like to have young men company, than their age’s men.  Accordingly that female hopes more stubborn love with sex from the young guys... But in many cases, it may never be a strong love relationship in between young men and older women.

But always keep remember in your mind that, if it’s a real true love, we don’t choose who we fall in love with, it simply happens.