In order for one to write about the sweetness of Love, one has to truly believe in the power of it. The Power of Love is magnetic and I believe in it strongly! The Bible explains it this way in 1 Corinthians 13:13, “Three things will last forever-faith, hope and love-and the greatest of these is love”. There’s an electricity that one feels instantaneously the moment that their feelings of love or attraction are reciprocated by the one that they want in return. That’s the Power of Love. The Bible goes on to explain that, “Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance” 1 Corinthians 13:7. Wouldn’t it be so sweet if marriages in America were built on this verse? There is something so powerful in the word endurance. “Permanence” and “duration” are some of the words that Webster’s Dictionary uses to define endurance. Imagine if we lived in a world where people would fight for their Love instead of against one another. I think the Power of Love directly coincides with the Power of Forgiveness. I pray that my next encounter with love will be my last. I promise to Love, Honor and Cherish every moment of it. I’m excited for it even though it hasn’t happened. That’s the Power of Hope. In the interim, I practice faithfully loving God. Our relationship has gotten so much deeper than ever before. Waking up daily for prayer, and morning devotionals have helped me to delve into a much better understanding of how our Heavenly Creator operates. God is Love and all he wants from his children is love in return.
My time spent with God has made me realize my dependency on His love. Similar to being in a relationship with a man, parent or with one of my children I never want to be without God’s Love. When a single or a married person takes the time to firmly root their relationship with God; that borne fruit can be counterproductive in one’s other relationships. This is where the Grace of God takes us. Isn’t the concept simply magnificent? I think it is. I’ve totally conditioned myself to understand that without my Creator’s Love in my life I will fail miserably at trying to extend my Love to a life partner or to anyone else for that matter. Patience and Love completely coincide. I’ve learned through years of impatience how important it is to actually have patience. When entering a relationship with a patient ear you can listen even more intently. One of my biggest weaknesses is my inability to listen effectively; people that talk a great deal typically suffer with this as well. I walked away from my last relationship not knowing anything of real significance about the person that I thought I wanted to marry. Other than reading about his personality in the results of a popular on-line exam; I didn’t know anything concrete, significant or really personal about him. Ultimately, I walked away feeling empty and very embarrassed by that. With every experience we have the opportunity to learn something about ourselves and to do better in the future.
The Power of Love will defy any human odds over the outcome. The Bible says this in Mark 10:9, “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate”. By couples taking the time out to really listen to one another; they have a strong chance of avoiding any miscommunication that could later lead to hard feelings. Defining the relationship constantly is also key. If you have questions for your significant other just ask them. Within the first year of marriage or any serious new relationship I would advise the couple to hibernate. During this hibernation period the couple should have the opportunity to acclimate to one another’s needs, wants, ideas and desires for their relationship. The Power of their Love will have a real chance to flourish because outside influences will be kept at bay. Having the chance to figure out what they both want without the judgment, advice or opinions of friends and family members can create a strong foundation between the couple. By no means, am I suggesting cutting friends and family off during this time. We all wear different hats with our relatives and friends than we do in our relationship. If someone you’re considering getting deeply involved with says to you, “My mother is my best friend”. I would have to question where do you fit into that relationship. Is there even room for you to be a part of that friendship? We have a responsibility to actively hear what people say when they say it, and even more importantly to accept it rather than to think that we can change it later on down the line. We can’t just fill-in the missing blanks or make things up as we go along. We can’t interpret things the way we “think” they should be or make assumptions on our partners’ behalf. For example, I couldn’t expect that person to ever make me his best friend if he was acknowledging that the position was already filled. Now had he said something more hopeful to me like, “My Mother is my best friend yet I would love for the woman in my life to eventually fill that space?” I might have visualized the statement with an idea that implicated a long-term commitment. As I mentioned earlier, the Love seed needs to be watered constantly in order to grow.
In conclusion, with long-temperance and a still spirit we can learn to be way more accepting of everything that God gives us. That includes the good, the bad, and the ugly. In God’s time, He will introduce you to the one that he has handpicked, reared and guided directly to you and for you. That blissful moment will be impactful and your intuition will awaken you to realize that you don’t want to spend another living day without that special person. Embrace, give thanks and cherish every single moment of your Love for the Blessing that it is. Always believing and knowing that its powerful force will never die when it’s true. Come rain or shine the two of you will grow closer and closer to one another with each passing day. Love holds no records and if you focus on planning your marriage versus your wedding day things will always remain solid. Relationships are easy to walk away from but very hard to endure. The person that God has picked for you will never walk away from you. They will be tested with temptation as we all are but they will never find it easier to take refuge in another because you will mean that much to them. Doesn’t that sound sweet? J
I’m praying that the renewal of spring 2013 brings fresh and fragrant Love to each of your lives; May God Bless You all.
Much Luv,
